Because its Saturday

Who doesn't long for weekends? By Friday, the piling weekly fatigue is real, and all you want is have a long restful Saturday, probably after the Friday outing with friends. For those of us who work on weekends, its no different! Even when at work, the weekend mode is on. So the stories and updates are hot! We are all getting ready to go share them with friends. No doubt women love sharing, talking, laughing and  little gossip! The only problem is when the gossip gets too hot to an extent of reaching the subject, then things get sour. Gossip is never bad until it touches on you, and sometimes it is a demoralizing catalyst.

DadaPower is about sisterhood; the spirit of oneness. Its about correcting a dada when she goes wrong, rather than discuss her so bitterly behind her back, only for it to reach her and make her feel so down. Where necessary, its better to directly correct one another and life goes on.

lovely weekend dadas

Multi-tasking

No doubt I had missed doing this once again. My passion to highlight, research and ask more about issues affecting women is one that I hold dearly at heart. And my dream about creating the change I desire to see and have concerning young ladies is one that scares me beyond measure.

However I have been away for a while because of unavoidable circumstances(exams), not because they were too hard to tackle but because of one dangerous culture I gradually embraced during my just concluded semester - last-minute reading. I had two undesirable hectic weeks full of anxiety,and more cramming than reading. It was doing all I can to tackle the questions in the paper rather than understand and try to reason. I was paying for what I had chosen to do - paying attention to other things and  ignoring my books which should not be the case. They were not unimportant matters; I had attended trainings, conferences, concerts, name them. But I kept postponing my reading. Eventually the exams started while still postponing.

Multi-tasking is one of the best ways to successfully do things especially when tasked with numerous responsibilities whose periods of execution are coincidentally the same. Over time I have learnt the need to do different things in a day, week or month. Even though it calls for a lot of discipline, multi- tasking yields plenty of benefits and networks. Ofcourse I regret having not multi-tasked between revision and my other responsibilities because it made me fore-go so many other things.

Did you know that women are very good at multi-tasking? That women are actually good at it than men? women are able to change into doing something else with more ease. Maybe you have been wondering whether its possible to do two or three different things at the same preriod without necessarily having to compromise the quality of either. Well, it can be done gal! All you need is discipline and commitment. Allocate adequate time for every task on whatever day, and give it your level best. You will be surprised at the wonderful results. Women possess such great power to do incredible things, no matter how many!

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My Dada Journey

 

  "We cannot accomplish all that we need to do without working together." 

                                                         - Bill Richardson

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 Dada means sister, hence the name of my blog, DadaPower. It is simply because I have been an inspired and motivated product of sisterhood which I have learned to embrace as a mentee at Emerging Leaders Foundation's group, Ladies of Splendor. Sisterhood means togetherness, learning, challenging and correcting each other. It is about offering a leaning shoulder for your neighbor when they need a slight push to move forward, providing a support system. Sisterhood is progressive, a catalyst of development.

I have learnt that I can never progress alone, and so bringing people together to achieve a common goal is wise and effective. I have also learnt that when my fellow dada falls, I am also affected. Haven't our mothers' chamas taught us how great working together can be? They meet on a certain day, contribute a certain amount, save a part of it and then spend the rest on something very long-term. Together, women have proved to really be effective. What a spirit to borrow!

It is the same spirit I want to extend in all that I do. DadaPower will be all about something I am very passionate about; celebrating, suggesting, embracing and implementing ideas, issues and activities that have been, and are a force of pushing ladies forward and using them to motivate and inspire other ladies. Ideas that make ladies bring out the best of themselves. I am a strong believer in yielding good results through hard work rather than handouts and I strive to be part of those who contribute to coming up with progressive ideas.

For much more progressive issues on ladies, kindly follow and read my posts on this blog. Lets interact and motivate each other on this blog because Together Everyone Achieves More - TEAM. Feel free to drop a comment, a contribution and (or) a question on DadaPower.
                            
                                      

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Support Power

..... I slowly stretched my hand towards the very annoying alarm right beside my bed that I had set to ring at 6.30 a.m the previous night to wake me so that I could prepare for school. Then quickly, but softly felt a tap on my shoulder. It was my mother, whom I had left cleaning dishes before I retired for the night......

 At the age of ten, my mother was my hero because of so many reasons, but mostly because she was always there to push for things when I could not. She would wake up early to make my breakfast,pack my lunch, cover me up at night in case I had dropped my blanket and still managed to go to work.

Constantly, I have grown up looking up to women who really work hard and successfully multi-task domestic responsibilities and their careers. They are a force to reckon with. My heart also goes out to those women, who really have the will to prosper by reaching  their many dreams, regardless of how small they are, but hardly get there because of hardships. But my heart bleeds when I watch or hear about young girls, who drop out of school not because they want to, but because of circumstances such as poverty, pre-mature pregnancies or because when school fees was less than required for all children in a family, it was preferred and decided that the boys go to school and girls remain at home since their education is not as important. It is such issues that have made societies retrogressive.

No doubt society is gradually embracing the necessity to empower the girl-child as much as the boy-child, but  much more can be done to make it better. My call is to all women; both young and old, to support a fellow girl in her endeavors so that together we can move forward. There are things that we highly should shun to be able to propel each other. Jealousy and lack of sisterhood are vices we have to wipe away in totality for the sake of the girl next door. It has been said time and again that behind every successful man, is a woman; but behind every successful woman are a hundred women armed with knives ready to wipe out their fellow woman. We have to put a stop to this by all means possible.  Lets all arise and let our little light shine as we light up the candles of those without the light, because by doing it,we only stand to benefit.

It is true women are very good at what they do and so we can can shine at helping and uplifting each other. Together, lets come together and support that girl who only needs a little push to get started. Let us start sustainable projects, initiatives and small motivational talks amongst ourselves and with the budding girls in our rural areas, so that together we can achieve more. With these, we will be a powered support system!!

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